Post by tinkle on Oct 14, 2015 12:25:01 GMT -5
I dont know, I always get the feeling no one likes me, i try and be nice and helpful to people and I get nothing, and then I try to be funny, I get nothing. Then I ignore, and someone else comes in and helps them and then they are appreciated. I guess i feel kinda invisible and that people think i annoy them.
And I do enjoy spending time on here, dont get me wrong at all, i actually love it here, but then I dont know, it seems like so many of you all know eachother and have formed friendships and then this wierdo comes in and.... i dont know.... I dont want to force myself on people or make a fool out of myself. :(
I can relate to this. I had a forum home, now I have a new one. I come here for help but feel like that person standing on the outside looking in so I tend to not participate. I have a forum home, I have a blog home and I have a Simblr home. Being a certain age I find Simblr to be annoying, yet I do follow certain peeps and I have a very small handful that I interact with. I personally don't care much for the entire attitude of Simblr...It's most likely because most of them are the age of my children and their behaviors would never be tolerated by me as a mother. I continue to post there, nothing personal as I don't need to hook up with anyone or need to whine about how hard my life is with people I don't know outside of the internet, however I post there only to share what I create. Yes my feelings on occasion get hurt, I may not feel valued or appreciated however I share because I want to...you either like my stuff or you don't. I do the best I can with what knowledge I have, is it perfect? Heck no! Could I use advice? Oh yes, plenty of times I'm banging my head trying to figure it out and afraid to go ask somewhere because sometimes things either don't make sense or I feel like I should already know what I'm asking about. I don't ever want to be a nuisance to another creator. In the end we are all human with many of the same feelings, I guess we need to just continue to put ourselves out there and hope we find friendships along the way and brush off the negative feelings that continually creep up on us.