Modding Request: Less annoying ghosts.

So, i play in a family where two sims have died, since when new members arrived, i had to take one of them out, due to me hating the fact that when you have 8 sims in a household, the sims buttons (the ones you click and you change to another sim in the same family) get all weird (like, there are 7 in a row, and the 8th is randomly above them, i find it annoying, so i only play with 7 sims). Anyways, i have these two dead sims, and i let their tombstones in the backyard so they can sometimes visit my sims. The problem is, they are annoying AF, and break stuff every single time. Like, i'll be calmly playing and then suddenly i start to hear the sound of running water and i know, deep within my soul, that one of the damned ghosts broke the shower again. It's every single time, and it annoys the hell out of me. So please, can anyone make a mod that either stops ghosts from autonomously "possess to break" objects, or a mod that makes it so they don't come unless summoned (by a spell or maybe an interaction created for this mod)?

I would really appreciate if someone could make this.