Custom Poses: Trouble Appending a Second Rig

I just started learning how to create custom poses and have been pretty successful with it for the most part. I'm working on a mother of the bride pose where the mother is helping the bride put on a necklace but for some reason, I'm having an issue appending the second female rig properly. I've made poses with two Sims successfully before, but it was a male and a female rig. This is my first duo pose with two female rigs.

I can append the second rig fine, but when I click on a point to rotate it, the axis circles are way to the side and not at the point I selected. This is leading to some wonky things happening when I try to rotate. I have a screenshot to show what I mean, as I'm sure I'm not explaining it right. I don't know a lot of the technical terms.

As you can see, I have the neck point selected, but that is not where the axis circles are. Any ideas how to get this aligned properly?