CC Skin overlays

Hello - I apologise if this is in the wrong section but I require some help with CC skin overlays (like the ones from sims3melancholic or obscurus). I have ones that are exclusively for male Sims and I would like them to stop showing up when I'm creating a female Sim. I've unchecked the 'Female', 'Feminine' and 'Allow For Random' boxes and I've checked 'Restrict Opposite Gender' and 'Restrict Opposite Frame' but all of that doesn't seem to make a differnce. If anyone could enlighten me as to what would actually work, that would be great .

Thank you .