Modding request: Posh House Rules for large households

I'm often playing with 6+ sims households with a butler and find it really annoying to send everyone to sleep, try to get the whole family together for dinner, etc.

I think the Family Bulletin Board item could be upgraded to include things like (or maybe a new item should be created?)

- Butler should make a party sized breakfast at a customizeable time and then discard leftovers at a specified time (option to allow keeping the leftovers? also option for vegetarian). We might need a special table for this that is available only for the butler, others can only grab food, but not put away the food from that table
- The same for lunch and special rules for dinner.
- Everybody (from teens to elderlies) should change into formal dress for dinner (toddlers eat alone until they learn to behave - ha ha)
- The butler should serve dinner for the family. That's a completely new interaction with new animation. The family should be sitting at the table and the Butler should "grab a serving" for everybody, and then everybody should start eating at the same time. If this is too complicated a "call to meal" by the Butler may be an alternative.
- Everybody should stay seated during dinner (except for extremely low needs), and chatting should be the only interaction (except for eating). Everybody should stand up and become autonomous shortly after the last sim has finished their meal.
- Everybody should go to sleep at a customizeable time (even if they are not sleepy right now)
- Being a posh family, noone should cook autonomously when they are hungry (they can already order the butler to cook for them)


I can offer help with blender and with testing, but I can not do the programming. I hope I'm not the only real snob here...